Will I Ever Have Sex Again?

‘This book had sex with my brain!’ SARA PASCOE
‘Hilarious. Intimate. Vital.’ JAMEELA JAMIL
‘I couldn’t put the book down!’ LAURA BATES

Comedian Sofie Hagen has not had sex in 3,000 days (and counting). And it turns out, she’s not the only one . . .

In an attempt to find out why we’re not having the sex we want, Sofie asks the questions: can we blame a lacking sex education? Is it all just sexual trauma? Where’s the radical sexual liberation we were promised? What are we going to do about this? Should she have slept with that guy in that bush that one time? How do you overcome being a 35-year-old virgin (when it comes to queer sex, that is)? How do the socially awkward and the neurodiverse have sex?

In Will I Ever Have Sex Again?, Sofie Hagen explores the quirks and difficulties of being an ‘involuntary celibate’ (but one of the feminist, progressive ones). With a blend of memoir and conversations with experts, therapists, sex workers, porn stars, comedians and public figures, this is a humorous and bold undertaking to gain a better understanding of how we can think, talk and feel about sex.

‘I was expecting a tad more tahini’ YOTTAM OTTOLENGHI
‘Refreshingly honest’ ROSIE JONES
‘Warm, Curious, Charming’ AUBREY GORDON

Format: Paperback
Pages: 288
Imprint: Blink
Publication date: 27/05/2025